Seem to be making a habit of it...

Nick....hope things get better for you....

I looked at some of the posts/threads that you are probably referring to. Often, folks (myself included), will feel so strongly about an issue, we silence an individual from accepting a different course of action with how we say things.

I have found it best to state your opinion with the facts as you see them, and move on. If they don't want to accept the advice, you are not going to change their minds.
 
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