I picked up two Bolivian rams today! I am pretty certain that I have a male and female (Ralph & Alice); at first they were pal-ing around then after about 30 minutes they did a few lip locks. I thought Ralph was the bully but at the moment he is pretty stressed and Alice is in charge! I have the lights out and am just observing for now. Anything else I need to do/watch for? This is my very first cichlid experience. I LOVE them. They are soooo cute!