AC Supported Caregiver Role

[Hollygirl]

My Aquariums provided me with more than a hobby. They were a way to keep myself sane while I cared for my elderly mother who was disabled with both severe arthritis and Parkinson's disease. Today my dear mom passed away with me at her side. If it weren't for the diversion of this hobby I could not have cared for her for the last few years. Something has to give a caregiver an outlet, and if you have to be indoors, what hobby could be better!

[Hooked Newbie]

You have my heartfelt and deepest condolences Holly.

[Radar]

So sorry for your loss,my thoughts and prayers are with you.

[The Zigman]

Awww.... I am soo sorry to hear that, but glad that somehow maybe we all helped you through it.

My condolences to you and your family...

Just take each day as it comes and you'll get through it all...

[Bk718]

Very sorry for your loss. Stay strong...

[Dangerdoll]

So sorry for your loss, Holly. As prepared as we think we are, it's always a big loss.... ***hugs***

[Redneck Woman]

My heart goes out to you Holly. I am so sorry for you loss.

[msjinkzd]

Oh Holly,I had no idea. Parkinson's is such a hard thing to witness/experience. You will be in my thoughts and I am so glad dthat your tanks have given you the outlet and solace that you need. I am very sorry for your loss and please let me know if you need anything at all.

[SchizotypalVamp]

I'm so sorry

[excuzzzeme]

You have my deepest sympathy for your loss and a grateful thank you for for being a care-giver.

My wife is my care-giver as we cannot afford a home nurse. Medicare won't pay the full cost and we cannot afford the difference. Because of this, my wife is my care-giver between jobs and her days off. Luckily, I am somewhat self-reliant and able to feed and dress myself but I still require someone to at least look out for my welfare.

I see how hard this is for my wife and I can only imagine how much harder it had to be for you.On that count, I too use fish as my therapy. They help keep me calm and occupy my days by watching, feeding, caring, and learning about them. Yes, they are very therapeutic. Because I am so occupied by them my wife doesn't worry about me as much now as she did in the early months and years.

Being a care-giver is hard, thankless, and tedious job. So to you and on behalf of all of us that require a care-giver, THANK YOU!

Again, my condolences for your loss.

[irishspy]

My condolences, Holly. I lost both my parents a few years ago and, no matter how much you steel yourself for it, it just isn't easy. It sounds like you did your best for her, which is all anyone can ask. I'm glad the hobby gave you some relief, and I hope it continues to bring you joy in the years to come.

[Que]

Sorry for your loss Holly. I hope I have contributed in some way to your enjoyment of this hobby and the diversion it gave you. Peace.

Q

[noodles62]

I am so sorry for your loss. It is so difficult to lose your mother, I know. My thoughts and prayers will be with you. Bravo to you for taking care of her during her illness. People like you have a special place reserved in heaven.

[Quinn1928]

i am truly sorry for your loss though i am young i have lost many beloveed things that are deep in my heart. i know how it feels but stay strong............ i am very sorry for your loss.

[Lupin]

Sorry to hear that, Holly.:(

[almo75]

Very sorry to hear of your loss. My heart felt condolences go out to you.

[Hollygirl]

Thank You everyone for your kind words. It really helps at a time like this.

[jpappy789]

My thoughts and prayers go to your family Holly :(

[Hurley]

I'm sorry about your loss, I cannot imagine how tough it must be. I am glad you were able to find a way to bring peace to you mind. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts.

[wataugachicken]

I am so sorry about your mom.

[jenratico]

Holly,
I've been out of touch and just read this. I'm so sorry about your mom. Being a caregiver takes a very loving and dedicated person, and I know your mom must have felt blessed to have you with her through the end. I know how hard it can be to be there caregiver having shared that role with my mother and sister as my grandparents declined. I'm so glad you found some peace for yourself and wish your mother an easy journey. I'll be thinking about you.

Jen

[skippy2]

I am so sorry for your loss. I too am a caregiver and you'r right. My tank is my outlet. I don't leave the house either except for my Dad's Dr. appointments so my tanks are to me a big release.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.