heres what mine look like, they are kinda in their breeding colors. They're very peaceful and have never nipped my cories even though they're always in the cave with them. When breeding they chase stuff away but never really hurt anything. I do know they will seriously hurt other males of their own kind though.
1st pic is male in the community tank
2nd pic is the other female in front with other male in background
yeah goodluck with yours they spawn pretty easliy I hear, but I've just had one batch so far. It was hard to find a pair though. You can tell easily in my pics female from male but in the stores it's harder. Usually because they are alot smaller. But anyhow I took this pic last night. The fry are doing really well, with a few runts but I can't bare to put them down :headshake2: