Ok. I think I have finally decided on gettign rams as my cichlid for the 10 gallon. I have heard that they do best in odd groups. Is that true? If not how do you tell the difference between a male and female cause I atleast want a pair? What type of other fish would go good with them? I really want a community mix meaning I dont just want a couple rams and then like some zebra danios or something I want a few different species. I know I am limited in it would only be a 10 gallon (soposing I get lucky and get it) but I wanted to have a few choices. Thanx ahead for any replies. If you know of any good sites on rams please let me know. Thanx. Have a good day.