View Full Version : Sorry if I've had a attitude lately....
captaincaveman9
10-24-2008, 3:19 AM
For those of you that know me well enough, you already know this information. If I have been short with many of you I want to explain what's going on so you can understand how to take me. Apart from being shot while in Afghanistan, my newest nephew was born. He was born 5 weeks early as his mother developed pre-eclempsia, and the only way to save her life was to deliver her child. He was born on August 31, and was very tiny. In a great picture of him he was wearing my brother's wedding ring around his bicep. This past wednesday it was determined the only brain activity he had was hit brain stem to beat his heart and the part of his brain that feels anger. He passed away friday afternoon around 4:30PM EST. His funeral was wednesday this week, and this was devistating for the family. I have 14 nieces and nephews, but this little guy touched us all in his short time in this world. So, for those of you I've snapped at I am sorry, and for those of you that know my buttons be warned I may snap at you. Thanks for listening to me,
Sorry to hear that CCM.. Hang in there bud :(
SchizotypalVamp
10-24-2008, 3:53 AM
It's really decent of you to apologize and share
You know we'll be here to support you :).
ProAquatics
10-24-2008, 4:13 AM
:osorry to hear,hang in there bud
Reefscape
10-24-2008, 4:38 AM
Such a shame to hear it dude....
Fishy_Fun
10-24-2008, 4:58 AM
So sorry for you:(
Rbishop
10-24-2008, 4:59 AM
Dang.....we are here for ya...yell at me all you want....
bluerat
10-24-2008, 5:14 AM
thinking of you .....
66661
shushhhh dont tell everyone i can be nice:)
Cavie hunni, you my dear have not a bad bone in your body :)
WE ALL LUVS YA!!!!
HUGS!!! XOXOXOX
Catpicklesdog
10-24-2008, 5:57 AM
So sorry for your loss. Hang in there.
Sorry to hear that, CCM.:(
noodles62
10-24-2008, 6:25 AM
I am sorry for all that you and your family have been through. Hang in there and vent all you want!
msjinkzd
10-24-2008, 7:15 AM
Oh captain! I am so sorry :( I really hope that you and your family can cope with this devestating blow. I am always here if you need an ear. I will have you guys in my thoughts
murraycod
10-24-2008, 7:24 AM
Sincere sympathies to you and your family, Captain.
Greg
Redneck Woman
10-24-2008, 9:07 AM
So sorry for your loss.
piggy67
10-24-2008, 9:47 AM
sorry ccm,your a good man,no need to apologize........
laurabb
10-24-2008, 9:54 AM
I am so, so sorry.
Lady G
10-24-2008, 9:56 AM
Oh, Cavie!!!! I am so sorry to hear about what happend, you are one of the sweetest ppl I've come across...no need for apologies, keep your head up and vent, yell, scream all you need to. If you need to just talk or anything I am just a PM away!
:hearts:
The Zigman
10-24-2008, 9:57 AM
Thats terrible news CCM...
My thoughts are with you...
Vicious_Fish
10-24-2008, 10:08 AM
I'm very sorry to hear this Capt'n. Hang in there bro.
Radar
10-24-2008, 10:12 AM
So sorry to hear that CCM. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Dangerdoll
10-24-2008, 10:46 AM
wow Cavie, how terrible.... I do agree, it's really decent of you to formally apologize like this but you are never really that mean ;)
my sympathies for your loss, and it sounds like a big one... your family are all in my thoughts and prayers, big guy...
kjr928
10-24-2008, 10:51 AM
Please accept my sympathy for your terrible loss. You are a wonderful person and there is no need for you to apologize.
I hope you and your family will find peace through this tragedy. My heart goes out to you.
fsb72
10-24-2008, 10:54 AM
I can't imagen how U feel at the moment but always remember that your fish family at AC will be here. If u need an ear at any time send a message to me and I be happy to listen or talk. try to stay strong for the one's u love and your self.......
I'm deeply sorry to here about your
Family's lose.. Chin up mate
Chris....
Debra Mark
10-24-2008, 12:33 PM
my deepest sympathies to you and yours, CCM.....you know we are all here for you!
*hugs*
Madcrawdad
10-24-2008, 1:12 PM
Sorry, CC. Can't say that I'd noticed you hollerin' at any folks, but I'm very sorry to hear about your nephew. Take care and try to keep positive thoughts.
Diann62
10-24-2008, 1:20 PM
No one knows how you're feeling unless they've been through it, and thankfully I have not. I'm so sorry for all you and your family has been through and I hope God gives you the strength you need.
Blueiz
10-24-2008, 2:15 PM
Sorry to hear of the anguish you and your family is going through. My deepest sympathy and most heartfelt wishes go to you and yours that what has been gained out of the precious time this child had on earth will go with you and bring a smile through all the sadness his passing has left everyone with. Ill be thinking of you and yours, and pray that overtime the love and joy of his arrival into the world will overshadow the sadness of his passing.
Huggs
CCM
I know how you feel.
We lost our 21 year old son to Lymphoma in 2005. Now we help take care of his 6 year old son.
That helps us remember Charlie.
Now my wife is battling liver cancer. She flys to Houston and gets treatment and examinations at MD Anderson hospital.
Also I respect and commend all of our military heros. I hope you've recovered from your wounds.
Charles
catnipgal
10-24-2008, 2:40 PM
I am sorry to hear about rough time and your loss. Hang in there. I'm sure you can vent in the chatroom if need be.
Slappy*McFish
10-24-2008, 6:43 PM
:(
Inka4040
10-24-2008, 6:47 PM
So sorry Cap. Our hearts are with you and yours through these tough times.
janewalsh11
10-24-2008, 6:49 PM
ccm,my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family,i hope you can all come through this. x
Quinn1928
10-24-2008, 7:02 PM
sorry to hear it....
Aww, Steve I am very sorry for all the pain your family is going through right now. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything you need please let me know. *hugs*
http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/11/11_2_104.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=_undefined) I had no idea! I am so very sorry to hear about your nephew, and also to hear that you got shot! I am glad and grateful that you are still here with us!!!
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Know that all your fishy friends are here for ya!
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jpappy789
10-25-2008, 3:46 PM
CCM, I am so sorry to hear about what happened to you and your family! Hang in there! :(
oO.Crim.Oo
10-25-2008, 7:52 PM
OMG I'm so sorry to hear the news, Captain. Be comforted in knowing that your nephew is free from pain and will forever be looking down on you all. Keep your head up and don't keep that anger and hurt all to yourself.
captaincaveman9
10-25-2008, 10:26 PM
OMG I'm so sorry to hear the news, Captain. Be comforted in knowing that your nephew is free from pain and will forever be looking down on you all. Keep your head up and don't keep that anger and hurt all to yourself.
I'm not keeping it bottled up, look through the forums and you'll see me sharing my anger with those who frustrate me ;)
Hurley
10-26-2008, 12:07 AM
Captain, I am so sorry to hear that. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts.
rocker92
10-26-2008, 12:16 AM
sorry to hear that.....stay strong and take it one day at a time!
Attitude?...... I love attitude!
Seriously cave, incredibly sorry to hear about this situation. Deepest sympathies.
cardinal queen
10-27-2008, 1:58 PM
Cavie, Im so sorry to hear your news. My thoughts & prayers are with you at this sad time. Keep yer chin up bud!
Becca12
10-27-2008, 2:16 PM
This is so sad-we are all thinking of you!
Cheech
10-27-2008, 3:31 PM
condolences to you and your family CCM... sorry to hear what happened..
severum mama
10-28-2008, 8:18 AM
I'm so sorry to hear about your nephew. :( Your family is in my thoughts.
snoopy65
10-28-2008, 8:45 AM
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
If you need to vent your frustrations, just start a thread titled that and I am sure there are enough of us here that will help you in your endeavor to vent.
Seriously though, if you need anything, your AC family is here for you.
Sorry to hear of this Steve. My thoughts are with you and yours.
Ken