You have to approach everything with an inpartial mind mainly, not let personal feelings dictate how you act or moderate....
You have to relax and enjoy being a member of staff, because if you are not enjoying it, then maybe its not the role for you....
Always try and keep a level head when approaching situations.....
ALWAYS remember, that even though your a staff member, your STILL a member....
Always be courteous, concider other peoples feelings
Be prepared for people to dislike you....not a nice thought, but, some people on forums really dont like staff members for their own reasons, cant be helped...
Remember that your only human ( except me of course, as i am robot, built into Aquariacentral.com's software infrastructure

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