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BreezeRuehls
09-09-2009, 1:52 PM
"And just like that, he was gone" - Forrest Gump
The worst thing I have ever felt was my son reaching out for his dad as he walked past us, getting on the bus that will take him into a foreign land for the next 365 days. Telling my daughter he wont be here when she turns 6, or any holidays. It really leaves an empty gap. I am not a sappy person, so tears dont come easy, but this time I could not stop them. The empty spot in our bed, his smell on the pillow, no one to talk to at 1am about our fish (really, we do that!) I get so mad that hes gone, I dont support this war, but I do love the soldiers, they have become family. I felt sorrow for them too, as they hugged their families for the last time in a year. And the boys who have no one, wow that's really sad as well. This sucks so bad.:headshake2:
jpappy789
09-09-2009, 1:57 PM
You're much stronger than I would have been in that situation...my thoughts are with you, your husband, and your family and I'm sure he'll be back safe and sound before you know it.
BreezeRuehls
09-09-2009, 1:58 PM
pics were taken with my phone, he has the camera
CornBreadjiffy
09-09-2009, 1:58 PM
stay positive and pray everyday, every minute, and that year will pass sooner than you think
BreezeRuehls
09-09-2009, 1:58 PM
thank you
Just reading that brought tears to my eyes.
Brandy, I'm sure you have support around the base and stuff, but if you need anything just let me know.
huffmagx
09-09-2009, 2:19 PM
My heart goes out to you and your family I hope the time passes swiftly and he returns home safely.
There are lots of us out here praying for an end to this war and a return of our soldiers just know you and yours are included.
Hebily
09-09-2009, 2:23 PM
Just keep looking forward to the best day.
jackiomy
09-09-2009, 2:28 PM
You can talk to me at midnight, but probably not at one in the morning. :)
noodles62
09-09-2009, 2:30 PM
Stay strong Brandy, for yourself, your kids and your soldier. He will need to hear it in your voice when ever he gets to call home. Get together with the other wives and make care packages to send. Make sure to send enough goodies for the single guys too. Make sure to send lots of phone cards...Just try to keep yourself busy so the days go quickly. I know the nights will be hard......Thankfully they have the ability for internet service so he can email and call via webcam. That is how my son stayed in touch with his wife and has been able to see his little girl as she has grown and learned to talk, etc....
my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family and for all of our service men and women.
lookit
09-09-2009, 2:37 PM
Oh, Breeze, I am so sad for you, your husband and your family. You and your husband are two of my favorite "reads" on AC -- I try not to miss any of your threads. I'll light candles for all of you and pray that you'll be safely and happily together in no time flat. Take care, and don't be a stranger to us ACaholics.
acevudoo
09-09-2009, 2:48 PM
I salute you and yours... Godspeed and thank you!
Cheech
09-09-2009, 3:01 PM
You got a great kid. Thank him for all of us.
excuzzzeme
09-09-2009, 3:36 PM
"And just like that, he was gone" - Forrest Gump
The worst thing I have ever felt was my son reaching out for his dad as he walked past us, getting on the bus that will take him into a foreign land for the next 365 days. Telling my daughter he wont be here when she turns 6, or any holidays. It really leaves an empty gap. I am not a sappy person, so tears don't come easy, but this time I could not stop them. The empty spot in our bed, his smell on the pillow, no one to talk to at 1am about our fish (really, we do that!) I get so mad that hes gone, I dont support this war, but I do love the soldiers, they have become family. I felt sorrow for them too, as they hugged their families for the last time in a year. And the boys who have no one, wow that's really sad as well. This sucks so bad.:headshake2:
No, he is not alone. He has the other guys and they will form a bond that will never be broken. They will always remember each other although they may never get together again. They might not speak together or any number of things but they will have a common experience to forever bind them in some way.
They will ache and long for their homes and families. They will share things with each other that would never be discussed at any other time. They will have each other and the memories of home and what they have left behind.
For the families - bind together and support each other as no one else can share your load like someone else going through it too. My wife and I have gone through this so many times we have lost count. It never gets easier and it never hurts less.
Stay positive. Easier said than done. But staying positive will help the children adjust and while you cry yourself to sleep at night, know that he feels the same way.
Good Luck to you, your Husband, his unit, and all the families.
mgarrido
09-09-2009, 4:01 PM
God bless you and your family, this war is an error and hope finish soon. It's good to see a wife completly in-love with her husband!
BreezeRuehls
09-10-2009, 3:32 AM
Thanks everyone, it means alot.
Adonism2
09-10-2009, 6:30 AM
Aww! Be strong and stay grounded in prayer! I will add you and your family in my prayers as well. Take care.
Star_Rider
09-10-2009, 9:16 AM
I know how you feel.
Hang in there..our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Somervell
09-10-2009, 10:46 AM
Praying for you and your family, Breeze! Remember, you have your fish family here, too! :)
Dangerdoll
09-10-2009, 2:52 PM
wow Breeze, what a powerful post. I admire your strength and the courage of your entire family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all!
ch-47 soldier
09-22-2009, 6:23 AM
No, he is not alone. He has the other guys and they will form a bond that will never be broken. They will always remember each other although they may never get together again. They might not speak together or any number of things but they will have a common experience to forever bind them in some way.
They will ache and long for their homes and families. They will share things with each other that would never be discussed at any other time. They will have each other and the memories of home and what they have left behind.
For the families - bind together and support each other as no one else can share your load like someone else going through it too. My wife and I have gone through this so many times we have lost count. It never gets easier and it never hurts less.
Stay positive. Easier said than done. But staying positive will help the children adjust and while you cry yourself to sleep at night, know that he feels the same way.
Good Luck to you, your Husband, his unit, and all the families.
i couldnt have said it any better
You guys (Ch47soldier & breeze) keep it lit and know that you have so many positive thoughts reaching out for the two of you and your kids, and a lot gratitude for what you are doing, all of your family.
lookit
09-22-2009, 7:28 AM
Hey CH-47!! :grinyes: It's good to hear from you! :dance2: Keep in touch. And Breeze, you, your family and CH-47 are all still in our thoughts and prayers.
pinkertd
09-22-2009, 7:55 AM
Hey you two.....may the time pass quickly for all of you, filled with loving memories of life together yesterday and dreams and plans for life together again real soon. My thoughts and gratitude are with you guys!
debaric
09-22-2009, 1:54 PM
godspeed to him and all the troops that fight for our freedom. They are all heros and im proud of their bravery and dedication! Takes one bad MF to be an American soldier, I wish more people realized how brave they are.
Hang in there, he will be back before you know it.
The Zigman
09-22-2009, 1:57 PM
One day at a time, and we'll all get through this together...
One day at a time
thesixis
09-22-2009, 3:26 PM
Wishing you and your family the best. May God bless all of you.
debaric
09-22-2009, 5:05 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7GYXm7n62nU&feature=related
BreezeRuehls
09-22-2009, 10:54 PM
:)
Aww you two are about the sweetest couple ever:hearts:, I only wish my marriage was like that. so great to hear from you Ch!! please check in every now and then so we know your safe and Breeze stop making me cry:cry:.