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noodles62
02-16-2010, 9:06 PM
So, so very sad.....Just found out my 17 year old nephew passed away tonight. Not sure how/why, just that he collapsed at home after complaining of chest pain and not being able to breathe......the ambulance took over an hour to get there....(fairly remote Colorado) He did not make it..... Please pray for his family.

Remember who is important and tell them you love them every chance you get - it may be the last.

Dangerdoll
02-16-2010, 9:08 PM
OMG Noods, how incredibly sad!! sending you thoughts and prayers, sweetie.... {{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}} I love you, Noods!!

noodles62
02-16-2010, 9:10 PM
Thanks DD. We are devastated. I can only imagine how horrible it is for my sister in law. My heart goes out to her.

excuzzzeme
02-16-2010, 9:10 PM
Sorry for your loss. Sad when someone so young passes away.

You are so very right about never miss an opportunity to tell your family you love them. I have a rule in our house about never hang up the phone or see someone leave without telling them you love them. Always make sure the last thing you ever got to say to them "I love you". Like you said, You never know".

msjinkzd
02-16-2010, 9:12 PM
oh noods, I am so sorry :( i am sending all my best voodoo powers your family's way. I cannot imagine how you are feeling :(

noodles62
02-16-2010, 9:13 PM
Sorry for your loss. Sad when someone so young passes away.

You are so very right about never miss an opportunity to tell your family you love them. I have a rule in our house about never hang up the phone or see someone leave without telling them you love them. Always make sure the last thing you ever got to say to them "I love you". Like you said, You never know".

Thank you. I/we have the same unspoken rule. We always say "I love you" whenever we can. Not phony but sincere, cause it may be the last words you hear. I am so heartbroken right now. Thanks for sharing my pain. I love my AC friends.......I must go to bed now....

Liz
02-16-2010, 9:14 PM
Aww, I'm sorry. It's especially tragic when they go so young...

Lab_Rat
02-16-2010, 9:16 PM
So sorry to hear that Noods, your family is in my prayers.

petluvr
02-16-2010, 9:30 PM
That is terrible, I apologize for you and your families loss. Please know you all are in my thoughts.

BreezeRuehls
02-16-2010, 9:34 PM
There is no pain like the pain death brings. I am truly sorry for your family's loss. I know there is nothing I can say to make it feel any better. But your right about the I love you, it needs to be said more often.

Pearl
02-16-2010, 9:49 PM
I'm so sorry. That is such a heartbreaker.

The Zigman
02-16-2010, 9:51 PM
Awful news noods...

My thoughts are with you!
I recently lost a cousin who was younger than I am.. Makes you think alot.

Madcrawdad
02-16-2010, 11:43 PM
Sorry to hear the sad news...my thoughts to you and your family.

jbradt
02-16-2010, 11:45 PM
So sorry, Noods. Happy thoughts to you and yours.

Stargazer53
02-16-2010, 11:53 PM
Oh gosh, Noodles -- So so sorry for your loss. How devastating. You hear about incidents like these: sudden losses, no opportunity to say goodbye, and unseen deaths and you just hope and pray that someone close does not have to endure such raw pain and sadness. So many people live such busy lives and even though we know we should say it more often, we forget - we shy away - we don't express enough how much we love someone and each other. My deepest and most sincere condolences to you and your entire family. Heaven must have been missing an angel. Sending you warm wishes, prayers, and thoughts while you all mourn this sudden loss. :(

pinkertd
02-17-2010, 9:18 AM
So sorry for your family's loss Noods. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. Hugs coming you way!!!

Somervell
02-17-2010, 9:26 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. Your friends at AC are thinking about you and sending good thoughts your way today.

noodles62
02-17-2010, 9:34 AM
Thanks everyone for your kind thoughts and prayers. It came as such a shock last night and I felt I had to reach out to someone; someone that was removed from the situation..... You have always been there for me and I knew you would come through again. (((hugs))) to you all.

dirtydawg10
02-17-2010, 9:46 AM
So sorry to hear about your loss Noods. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Star_Rider
02-17-2010, 10:08 AM
My thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
I know all to well the feelings you are having.

Death Pony
02-17-2010, 10:40 AM
I'm so sorry to hear that. I've actually had 1 or 2 classmates die the same way. It's usually a circulatory system problem. I know how you're feeling all too well.

IceH2O
02-17-2010, 10:54 AM
Sorry to hear Noods.

My families thoughts to you and your family.

Kashta
02-17-2010, 11:06 AM
That's such sad news. Noods, I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Jspigs
02-17-2010, 11:07 AM
I am so sorry:(.

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

lookit
02-17-2010, 11:11 AM
Noods, I'm so sorry to learn of your loss. You and your extended family are in my prayers.

Fishfriend1
02-17-2010, 12:02 PM
That is so sad...

rainbowcharmer
02-17-2010, 12:14 PM
So sorry. :(

Death of a loved one is never easy, but death of a child is just about the hardest thing that anyone might have to cope with.

My thoughts are with you and your family - especially our nephew's parents. It will take them a very long time to recover from this - and they will need your support and the support of their friends and other family members in this time.

My family went through something similar 11 years ago, so I know it will take a long time to start getting back to somehow living normally. Take it one day at a time...

Chrisinator
02-17-2010, 12:17 PM
I'm sorry.

BioHazard
02-17-2010, 12:23 PM
How tragic. I'm so sorry for your loss.

jooranda
02-17-2010, 12:49 PM
my deepest sympathy, my thought are with u at this sad time

NeonFlux
02-17-2010, 12:58 PM
Very sorry for your loss, Noods. Thats so unfortunate. Prayers are with you and the family..

Reframer
02-17-2010, 4:26 PM
I'm sorry to hear this, thank you for the reminder because we do get busy and forget this.
I had some friends that lost their 13year old son, the mom found him dead in his bed one morning. Apparently it was a bad seizure in the middle of the night. I can't get it out of my mind, you always worry about your kids passing away too early.

jpappy789
02-17-2010, 5:25 PM
Normally I don't post in these types of threads because I don't know what to say, but wow Noods, so so so young...too young...I'm truly sorry for your family's loss.

Bubbles2112
02-17-2010, 5:39 PM
Prayers sent your way--such a tragedy that one so young dies. I am truly sorry for your loss.

Emg
02-17-2010, 6:07 PM
My condolences to your family Noodles......I just lost a niece last week. She was only 22. She was in a head on crash back in the middle of December. Some drunk was going the wrong way down the highway. They checked her out at the hospital....she was banged up a bit not apparently serious....they sent her home.

Last Tues afternoon she died suddenly. My brother said she had complained that her stomach hurt the week before but she thought is was just menstral related and didn't get it checked out. The report isn't in yet but we think she had an abdominal anurism which took her out instantly. Damaged caused by the seatbelt that weakened a major artery in her abdomen.

If you or anyone you know is ever in an accident.....make sure if you have any abdominal or chest pains afterward checked out and don't forget to tell the dr that you were recently in a car accident. There's no quarantee that if there is damage it would be found....but at least you won't be where my brother and his wife are now....."Man...I wish we had checked that out !"

Life is too short and precious.....a very sad week.....

noodles62
02-17-2010, 6:44 PM
wow! that is very scary!! he was in a car accident with his sister a month or so ago.....
we still dont know really what caused his death, but I really appreciate all of the kind words and thoughts. I know it is difficult to talk to others when they lose a loved one, and I appreciate that, but this thread and my friends here on AC have helped more than you could ever know.....We have yet to talk to my sister in law (his mom) ashe has not been able to take a call yet.....keep the good mojo coming our way as his immediate family tries to deal with this....

ayra321
02-17-2010, 6:47 PM
so sorry for your loss!
my heart goes out to you and your family!