All of my fish died

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Milky

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" I took the red pill " *~` North Hollywood CA `
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I had gotten a new 60 gal with a filter and transfered my fish from my 50 gal to the 60 gal and all of my fish died... I was trying to rearange my tanks so that they would be in the right place... Since no one in my family cares about any of the things that I like in fact, once I take interest in something they always go against whatever it is that i do in the harshest way... Since noone would help me and im all alone trying to move 60 gallon tanks and a 50 gallon tank I was trying my hardest to make the new home for the fish filling them with water I had to be done before my father would get home and argue more about what im doing with me like everyone always does. .. I had them in buckets but they were going to end up frezzing and i ended up putting them in the 60 gal and they all died... I had these fish for about 2 years. Since I ran out of money I couldnt buy anymore stuff for the tanks and whenever I would try to get somethings for the tanks everyone would just argue with me... Well all my discus died my barbs my and my tetras angels and clown loaches, its a sad day for me Im just writting this to help me deal with this in a constructive way... I tried my best to keep them but Ive failed... I dont really talk to my family anymore about it there all just more interested in there things and dont care about the things that I try to make enjoyable for everyone... :sad :sad My fish are with god now and in heaven I buried them all by a small apricot tree that I planted just like the indians used to in order to fertilize there plants it was the only thing i could think of its just so sad. Its mainly my fault though noone else to blame but me ... Those fish were pretty much my best freinds... :sad :sad They would play with me and I with them, and now there gone I know what alot of you would say why didnt you do this or you should have done that but im all alone with this one no one here understands or wants to help they just know how to make alot of noise but never care about the things that I needed help with.. At least my 2 oscars my pleco and my chineze algae eater are still alive... Its sad looking at the tanks now they used to bring me joy now there bare and empty... well writing this out feels like it helps alittle...
 
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Well if it makes you feel any better, I'm kind of going through the same thing with my girlfriend and my parents. My girlfriend thinks that I shouldn't have to pay a lot of attention to the fish and that I should just stop buying supplies. My parents are old fashioned and think that everything I get (dechlorinator, pH adjusters, etc.) is a waste of money and that I should leave the tank alone that the fish will be fine. They don't understand because they don't read up on technology. I try to tell them that fishkeeping has changed in the last 20-30 years and everything is done differently. I don't know if this made you feel better, but I hope it brought some comfort in knowing that your not the only one going through this.
 
I am so sorry milky :sad I am also very sensitive when it comes to my fish or any other animals. My dog of 13 years just died this year and it was the worst thing I have ever been through. Things will start to look better though after a while. I wish I had something to say to help with your family but some people are stubborn. I hope I am not insulting you, but are you a teenager? When you are a teen that is when it is the hardest to get along with your family. At least for me. Best wishes :)
 
im not going to compare your accident with my unfortunate events because that doesnt normally help people feel better. (not trying to discourage anyone with that)
like you said, they are with god now, and at the same time with your apricot tree, which can use them for a natural nourishing fertilizer. I hope this loss doesnt discourage your plan to continue fish keeping as from the posts i've read from you, you sound like a caring person with quite a bit of skills and experience in the subject. Time heals all, and i hope in time you can once again give some fish the honour of being kept in your tank, which will be once again full of life.
 
Milky, I am so sorry for you, my heart goes out to you and your pets. You did your best, and they had a good life with you. Don't beat yourself up over it. You obviously loved your animals, how tough. We here understand your loss, not everyone understands what fish keeping can mean to someone, try to forgive your family and understand that.
 
((MILKY))

I am so sorry. I hate that your fish have died. I hope that something good happens to you soon.

Carla
 
milky, i totally understand when i talk to my parents about stuff i need for my aquariums i get the whole your a kid you should be out running around with friends it totally sucks i know trust me i know. everytime i need to move one of my tanks i never get any help you should see me trying to move my 350 gallon. i wanted it on the other side of my where i could look at it while i was laying in bed. it was a horrible eexperience. my hair was up in a ponytail and still soaking wet from where i had to reach so far down into it. what should of took about 2 hours with two people took me about10 by myselfmy dad wont even let the help do it with me. he says they get paid to clean not mess with stupid fish alday. if you need to talk or just want to talk baout fish let me know and i will add you to my messenger. YOUR NOT ALONE ALL PARENTS HATE FISH TANKS !!!
 
beginner said:
YOUR NOT ALONE ALL PARENTS HATE FISH TANKS !!!
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Not all beginner ;)
I highly encourage my children to help with the fish tanks :D

I too as a teen had problems with the fish and the parents not understanding. That has just encouraged me to be more open as a parent to my children :D
 
i feel your pain every time you look at the tank it makes it worse doesnt it

dont let it tear you away from fishkeeping as you get so much enjoyment from it

i and my son have mamma tank (40g) and son tank (5.5g) to be

and it is something that we are starting together and enjoying together cant wait for the fish

you will find someone to enjoy your fish with you

i know this is hard to say but there are plenty of fish out there that could use a home the silver lining is new fish to adopt

you can look at some different fish maybe
 
Milky said:
.. I tried my best to keep them but Ive failed... I dont really talk to my family anymore about it there all just more interested in there things and dont care about the things that I try to make enjoyable for everyone..

Its mainly my fault though noone else to blame but me ...
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dont beat yourself up bud, its not your fault. Its hard trying to cope with people who dont understand your hobbies, it happens to all of us. Do your best to understand that they wont always appreciate the same things you do, and try to forgive them for it (you'll be a better person). You're in a bad place now, but i promise that things will get better.


keep us posted on how your doing; the best way to get through something is to talk about it.
 
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