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CaptnDan
10-16-2006, 3:36 AM
This happened about 6 hours ago, but I am still really PO'd about it. Sorry, but it has nothing to do with fish or anything... I just had to vent. I guess in my mind, I didn't really resolve the situation to my satisfaction at the time.

It was a beautiful cool evening, so I went out for a ride. I was heading toward a local marina where I knew a few of the guys would be when I saw two of them coming toward me. I pulled a quick U-turn and joined them - I knew they were headed for the donut shop. It's a ritual of sorts. Some of them go every night after the marina.

So now the three of us are cruising down one of the main streets, a 5 lane road. We're staggered in the lane, I was #3, #2 was ahead of me by about 30ft on the left side of the lane, #1 was about 60 ahead of me, in the same part of the lane as I was.

As we approach a shopping center, a guy makes a left out of someplace, I guess it had to be a fast food place or something and starts accelerating in the left turn lane. After the first two bikes are past him, he just starts coming over... I'm right next to him. The timing couldn't have been better, because as this is happening, the right turn lane into the shopping center is starting to open up. As I move into it, thumb on the horn button, this guy keeps on coming. Finally, I let off the horn and slam my fist on the hood of his truck. Ah, NOW he knows I'm there....

So I pull ahead, and this jerk comes into the lane behind me, and gets right on my butt. Now I have had it. He's going into the parking lot, so I'm going there too... As I get into the parking lot, Bozo decides to pull up next to me and actually has the nerve to say "You better not have dented my hood..."

I went off. Considering the way we edit expletives here, the conversation was about 90% ****'s. His excuse was, "I saw the first two..." Well, that's just great. If you miss two, it's OK to kill the third???? Everything he said made me more irate.

By now, the other two guys have figured out where I am, and are roaring into the parking lot. I've got one hand on the door handle of the truck and the other, uh, inside my jacket. The older and wiser of the three of us puts his hand on my shoulder and says "Don't." OK, he's right.

So I look across the hood of the truck. I tell the guy, "I didn't dent your hood." Then I put a nice imprint of my boot heel in the middle of his door. I added "But I did f**** up your door."

I walked back over and sat back on my bike and hit the starter. The others did the same. As we left the parking lot, the guy was still sitting there.

Why don't people realize that when they drive a vehicle, they have responsibilities? A moment of inattentiveness can literally kill somebody. This guy wasn't watching where he was going. If I had been in a car, I wouldn't have had as much room and he would have hit me, probably forcing me onto the sidewalk - a sidewalk full of people. All because he couldn't be bothered to look before he moved. All three of us have extra lights on the front of our bikes. We are far from invisible. This joker was either too distracted, or in too much of a hurry to have the slightest concern for anybody else.

We continued on to the donut shop. I had a raspberry filled and a chocolate frosted. And a chocolate milk. It was good. The ride home was uneventful.

fishcatch22
10-16-2006, 4:30 AM
wow, peace, man..... don't be radianing all these nagative vibes, dude, you're harsing my style...

Lila
10-16-2006, 5:20 AM
Can't blame ya, doll, for going off on the guy. Crap, I almost pulled out into one the other day. It freaked me out. I always, always try to look for bikes (especially in my area). But at the moment they were passing, they were right where the thick frame of the interior of my window/windshield part of the truck. It was a smaller bike. Just as I started to press on the gas to turn is when I saw them. Luckily, I wasn't trying to zoom off the street I was on and noticed them.

But I certainly didn't gain up on their assets. Always keep my distance.

Glad you didn't get hurt. The guy was a complete jerk off, and he'll probably be much more careful now.

My neice went for ride with her mom's boyfriend this past summer. She said it was quite an experience and that she realized how scarey and easy it could be for a car to not notice a biker. Made her more aware as a driver, and it's something I keep in mind during the biking season.

*Hugs* There, there. In case the donut didn't make you feel better enough. ;)

Cheech
10-16-2006, 7:17 AM
[QUOTE=CaptnDan]
Why don't people realize that when they drive a vehicle, they have responsibilities? A moment of inattentiveness can literally kill somebody. QUOTE]


Absolutely. .

Thank God you got out of this without injury...

People seem to not understand how important it is to treat motorcycles with even more respect than you would a car. A simple fender bender that would mean nothing more than some touchup paint on a car can easily cause an accident on a bike.. .

aardvark1
10-16-2006, 7:30 AM
BTDT..

Was making a left turn, eased over into the turn lane, when a little old lady decided at the last minute she also needed to turn-right into me.

Yelled, no help. Boot on her door; that got her attention!

"I didn't see you!"

:devil:

Dangerdoll
10-16-2006, 8:32 AM
ugh, what a nightmare!! I always keep my eyes peeled for them too, and find myself being a little overprotective of them when they are behind me or I am behind them, being extra cautious. That comes from having a lot of bikes in the family though, and losing a couple friends because of "simple mistakes".... *sigh* everytime I see a bike on the road, I think to myself "please be careful".... glad you did it that way, Dan and that you didn't get hurt..... I'm surprised the guy wasn't on the phone....

kjf91004
10-16-2006, 9:34 AM
It's for that reason that when my hubby and I ride, we head out of town.

People ask about the safety of riding motorcycle and I tell them it is perfectly safe... but you have to assume with every vehicle you come accross that they don't see you. Because odds are that they don't.

People are so wrapped up in their own little world that nothing else matters, and then they think it is YOUR fault. GRRRR!

Glad you're safe. Hope you wear a helmet! A buddy of mine met the side of a camper that turned out in front of him a few years ago... with no helmet and now has a metal plate in his face to show for it. I wear mine religously.

Squawkbert
10-16-2006, 9:55 AM
I'm so glad I had little air horns mounted on my '80 Suz. 750. Once I was waiting to cross a 4 lane. Guy comes up from the right and makes a right down the street I'm waiting to advance on, he's the last one I was waiting for so I start across to follow him down the street. I'm 1/2 way across and I see his reverse lights - he wants to back onto the street he just turned off of (!?!). I hit the air horns (they were small but very loud).
(Still) without looking in his mirrors, they guy throws it back in drive and peels out. I was too busy laughing to flip him the bird once he finally had a look in the mirrors.

aardvark1
10-16-2006, 10:58 AM
I also had air horns on my bikes; the little "beep" you get from the stock horns is useless; you can yell louder!

Got the attention of a few drivers that way!

CaptnDan
10-16-2006, 1:39 PM
Thanks everybody. I really appreciate it.


*Hugs* There, there. In case the donut didn't make you feel better enough.Thanks... No donut could ever top that, I don't care how much chocolate they pile on it!

Cheech - So true. If it wasn't for the increased maneuverability to offset the vulnerability, we'd all be toast.

Aardvark & Squakbert - One of the first things I did was to replace the horns, those little stock jobbies are really useless. Then I started adding lights... Be seen, be heard.

kjf91004 - I never go without a helmet. My wife works for a neurosurgeon and has seen too much of the type of stuff you described... When my wife and I ride, we usually head out of town by the quickest route possible. It's safer out away from the city, and a ton more enjoyable too! I'd rather take my chances with the deer than with humans for the most part.

Dangerdoll - I wish there were a lot more out there like you, Hon... I'd gladly share the road with you any time.

I usually play the "what-if" game. I try to think of the stupidest thing a driver can possibly do, and assume that he is about to do just that. It's all about threat assessment. From where this guy was, his speed, a full lane between us, etc., he was a lower level threat (or so I thought) than some of the others. Fortunately I had an escape route - I'm pretty good about ensuring that.

Two simple rules:
1. You are invisible.
2. If they can see you, they are trying to kill you.

Thanks again everybody!

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fishcatch22
10-16-2006, 1:43 PM
that guy may have been drunk or high on drugs, you know. did he seem a little odd looking?

CaptnDan
10-16-2006, 1:49 PM
Nope, just stupid. He really seemed to think it wasn't his fault, because after all, he did see two out of three of us! Sheesh....

Kinda funny now.... He was never apologetic or anything - no remorse or acceptance of guilt, until the three of us turned to walk back to our bikes. Called us "Sir" and "Gentlemen" and everything.... Every other word was "sorry".... LOL I think at that point he considered himself very lucky.

Something about our backs just made him really uneasy... ;)

125gJoe
10-16-2006, 2:23 PM
Glad you didn't get hurt!

Seems like a good time hear how another incident turned out...


http://www.chumfm.com/MorningShow/bits/march24.swf

:D




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CaptnDan
10-16-2006, 2:37 PM
Now that's funny! LOL!

Bitsy
10-16-2006, 2:44 PM
Some people just have no common sense! Glad that it worked out and nothing too bad happened! What would we have done around AC without you?!? *hugs* :p:

gatotsu77
10-16-2006, 2:50 PM
I'm certainly glad to hear that you came out of this unscathed. Here in california its practically suicide to ride a motorcycle... the a**holes here think they own the friggin road and will hit you, blame you, and then try to sue you for giving them whiplash. (some girl tried that one on my mom... the accident caused a $10 scratch to her car... and this other b**** was tryin to claim whiplash...) I really want to learn how to ride and get a motorcycle, but like I said, out here in cali, especially here in LA, its just suicide to ride a bike here. I've seen 3 fatal accidents involving a motorcycle... and that's enough to keep me off of one until I move somewhere else.

Lila
10-16-2006, 3:08 PM
I usually play the "what-if" game. I try to think of the stupidest thing a driver can possibly do, and assume that he is about to do just that. It's all about threat assessment.

This is what I do in every day driving. My dad taught all of us to think like this. Always know where your escape is, and always assume the other driver is gonna do something stupid. Always be ready.

:D

Anytime, doll!

CaptnDan
10-16-2006, 3:10 PM
Some people just have no common sense! Glad that it worked out and nothing too bad happened! What would we have done around AC without you?!? *hugs* :p: Well, I had to come out of it in one piece... What if they had stuck me in a hospital that didn't have DSL??? Yikes! Cuz what would I do without AC? :sad:

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sumthin fishy
10-16-2006, 3:18 PM
I hate jerks who cant respect a rider. IMO bikes own the road. I always get over as far as I can when they want to split the lanes in trafic, wave 'em on, give em the right of way. I never follow close and let them be free. I expect the same when I am riding. You should go get a handful of nuts and bolts to keep in your pocket. Sometimes that works better than a horn at distances greater than arms length.

Lila
10-16-2006, 3:20 PM
Well, I had to come out of it in one piece... What if they had stuck me in a hospital that didn't have DSL??? Yikes! Cuz what would I do without AC? :sad:

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It's more like, What would we do without you?! :(

UncaBret
10-16-2006, 5:04 PM
wow, peace, man..... don't be radianing all these nagative vibes, dude, you're harsing my style...
:thud:

gatotsu77
10-17-2006, 1:42 PM
You should go get a handful of nuts and bolts to keep in your pocket. Sometimes that works better than a horn at distances greater than arms length.

I take it that's a method which has been experimented with? I certainly agree, they would definitely take notice to that over a motorcycle horn, but hopefully they wouldn't become vengeful and try something else stupid in retaliation.