hmmm...that definition is best for private convos, wouldn't you think?
i could bob but i wanted to know what yours was? or is?
to be or not to be?
Male rams have longer fins than the females. If both of your rams are indistinguishable except for the sick vs healthy colors then you very likely have
Get a 5 gallon tank for your next betta and a heater. You don't need fancy just enough room and bettas need warm water 78-80F.
They live wild