get the 55 or bigger..discus are not difficult to raise but you need to give them the best opportunity to get fish that fit the description.
barebottom until they get large...young discus need 3-4 feedings daily and the tank needs to get cleaned as soon as they have finished eating..siphon out any uneaten food.
daily water changes are best for young discus..but you can stretch that out a bit to 3 -4 times weekly..just do larger changes.
discus breeders use thier own formula for food..but you can raise them with over the counter food..mine love tetra colorbits..mix in some brine shrimp, mysis shrimp and bloodworms.
get the fish from a discus breeder..most LFS do not have the same quality as the breeder and the breeders fish will most likely be much healthier and have a higher survival rate.