I absolutely love damsels- the half blue and the yellow tail blue, for a small reef tank. But, no one else I talk to seems to like them. They say all they are good for is a cycle fish (this is a cruel practice I do not do). They say do not put them in because I will regret it. They say they are bullies and too rambunctious (probably spelled that wrong). But, I love the way they look against the orange clown fish. Can they be tankmates, without stressing the clowns, or is everyone I've talked to right? What if the damsels are added last?