i was watching my "male" socolofi today and it seemed to be choking on some gravel, so i "stripped" the gravel out of "his" mouth, but the thing was, instead of gravel, out came 2 of the biggest eggs i've ever seen! they were huge! i couldn't tell if there was a yolk spot in the middle of them or not, but they were so huge and i was so surprised because this entire time i have thought that my fish was a male, but now i know i have 2 females!