I just got these two last Friday. I noticed that the female had this white spot on her mouth the first day or two. Now it's getting worse. The tissue around her mouth is almost all white now and a white spot is developing above the mouth, right below the eye. I tried to get pics of the female, but my point-n-shoot won't cooperate. It almost looks like dead tissue. I also noticed the male bully's the female sometimes. She seems very timid and not very active. I plan to do a water change tomorrow. Other than that any idea's?