That's horrible, I am very sorry for your loss.
I ended up completely breaking down the 55g(coompletely removing all of the rocks, sand, and water-and washed everything with regular tap water-since the treated water was horrible-
What do you mean by regular tap water and treated water, well vs city? Why is the treated water horrible and what did you fill the tank with?
Let me make sure I understand correctly, you re-did the tank with clean rocks, filters and fresh water but it turned cloudy and smelly? If so, that sounds like a situation I would encounter!
Seriously though maybe the sand or wood held something nasty from the unfortunate mass die off. Cloudiness could be from the sand or a bacteria bloom but the smell is unusual.
Are the pictures from your "55g redone" thread still accurate? Can you get us a current picture?
Are your tests fairly new, less then 2yrs old? A lot of kits don't last longer than 3 yrs. If you have some household ammonia handy I would test your ammonia test kit.
Sorry for all the questions but hopefully we can find some answers!