FX5's are on sale right now at bigalsonline:
http://www.bigalsonline.com/BigAlsUS/ctl3684/cp17290/si3478855/cl0/hagenfluvalfx5canisterfilter
http://www.bigalsonline.com/BigAlsUS/ctl3684/cp17290/si3478855/cl0/hagenfluvalfx5canisterfilter
Any more lighting input? I don't think I'm confused enough (lol)!
Seems no matter which way you go there is a bit of "it'll work" involved, but no clear cut answer!
I have decided on 2 36" T5HO 4 x 39 Watt lights from this site: http://www.fishneedit.com/3ft4bulbs-with-l34.html. You can choose your bulbs, they are cheap, nice looking, have LEDs for night lights, and have three cords so I can vary my lighting throughout the day. I simply have not found a better bang for the buck. I am ordering them today or tomorrow. I have read some pretty good things about these, and they fit my budget. I almost went with the 72", but the 36s have the three cords and LEDs...
I am also debating about filters: Eheim 2080 or Fluival FX5. There are so many opinions! The Fluval will probably win the battle due to cost (I have found them as cheap as $179 including media).
Look into Turface MVP gray for substrate. I paid $36.00 for 100 lbs; about 10-20% of what I would pay for Eco-Complete, ADA Aqausouil, etc.
no for light
yes for stand
the price of the light isnt that great. The one i sent you has a sleeker look and cost $100 less. Plus with the extreme you will need to replace the bulbs which will cost you another $100 +/-. With one i sent you, they replace bulbs for free