when oto's die, it is usually because of they way they are caught and then kept in the store. They are usually almost starved to death when you get them. The methods for catching them are pretty horrible, from what I hear, but I won't go there. It's possible it was eaten, but they are A LOT faster than you think, and faster than many other fish. They are also REALLY good at hiding. I would bet that it is hiding someplace.