flourite does not decompose.
and i've washed tons of it, both fine gravel and sand, for years. i just couldn't understand all this fuss with washing it. this is what i do... get a bucket and pour in about 1/3 bag at a time. swirl good and here's the key tip: do not wait too long for the smudge to settle. i usually wait at most 2-3 seconds for the larger chunks to settle, then pour away the rest. what goes out are the finer pieces which causes the cloudiness when you re-agitate the tank due to rescaping, maintenance, etc.
this method is quicker, cleaner, and will also cause a loss of about 10% of your stock. after the wash water settles, you'll see a pile of mud. you could say it's a bit wasteful, but this will help you achieve crystal clear water and less pain going forward. i have never experienced cloudy water which lasts overnight even after a complete scape overhaul.