If your tap water has a naturally high ph 8-8.5 then the gravel should be fine. The thing with sand and other cichlid substrates is that it naturally rasies the ph to/near the desired ph for the cichlids. Crushed coral works too, you can also add rocks such as lime stone, lace rock, and other stones that will also raise the ph also these objects will buffer your water so the ph doesnt change to often and pretty much remains stable. You can also add stuff such as proper ph 8.5 to your water, i think one package is per 20 gallons of water. havent had to use it yet, but if anyone can add anything that im missing to help mayreee out that would be appreciated

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