chunksofpoooo said:
I know exactly what you mean. I could have answered each question differently each time I took it. It all depends on the circumsatnces during that moment. For example:
3. When talking to people you...
a) stand with your arms folded
b) have your hands clasped (At work is a must. When talking with superiors your hands are either clasped in front or behind you)
c) have one or both your hands on your hips (When I get done running at work and I'm standing there talking to friends or subordinates)
d) touch or push the person to whom you are talking (I will talk with my hands or horseplay mannerisms only with good friends)
e) play with your ear, touch your chin, or smooth your
hair
On the norm though, I find that my mannerisms shadow the person I'm talking with. If a person is relaxed around me. I'm relaxed. If a person is edgy, then I'm going to be put on edge.
