I have an Aquaclear 50 filter for my 20 gallon tank. The instructions say to replace the sponge every 2 months, the carbon every month and the biomax every 3 months. Is this really necessary? I've heard to keep reusing the sponge until it deteriorates and is no longer usable (just rinse in tank water at every water change). Is this good advice? What about the carbon and biomax? Thanks.