I agree, slowly raise your SG to between 1.024-1.026. Keeping it at 1.021 won't really discourage parasites, to do that you'd need to take it down to levels that will kill your inverts. Lower SG is fine in FO tanks, but with inverts it's best to keep levels as close to NSW levels as possible IMHO.
Right now I'd ditch the condy and then let the tank settle until NH3 and NO2 are 0. Then look into some smaller fish that will live happily in a nano. Unfortunately tangs are out, but there are many other gorgeous fish that will do well in a 30g: many gobies, clownfish, some dwarf angels, some wrasses, damsels, and more.
Right now I'd ditch the condy and then let the tank settle until NH3 and NO2 are 0. Then look into some smaller fish that will live happily in a nano. Unfortunately tangs are out, but there are many other gorgeous fish that will do well in a 30g: many gobies, clownfish, some dwarf angels, some wrasses, damsels, and more.