This is a serious question, and not intended to be taken rudely in any manner, as my mom is also homosexual.
So, I have a little female German Blue Ram. After a week or so, I added a larger High Fin Female German Blue Ram. They kicked off together instantly, but then I had a tank based disaster, and the poor highfin died. I moved the older female GBR into my 20 long again, and then recently (about 1, 2 weeks ago) added a smaller then her male GBR. They haven't kicked off at all. She tried to kill him, then he tried to kill her. She's now spending all her time under some driftwood, while he swims around the main tank... I have no where else to put her except all alone in a 20gal tank with fake everything. Anyway, could she have preffered female fish to male fish, or is she just scared and upset over the death of her former friend?
So, I have a little female German Blue Ram. After a week or so, I added a larger High Fin Female German Blue Ram. They kicked off together instantly, but then I had a tank based disaster, and the poor highfin died. I moved the older female GBR into my 20 long again, and then recently (about 1, 2 weeks ago) added a smaller then her male GBR. They haven't kicked off at all. She tried to kill him, then he tried to kill her. She's now spending all her time under some driftwood, while he swims around the main tank... I have no where else to put her except all alone in a 20gal tank with fake everything. Anyway, could she have preffered female fish to male fish, or is she just scared and upset over the death of her former friend?