Holly, I didn't see your post before I went back to the store. I ended up deciding to go with a flame dwarf gourami (he is sooo beautiful) and 2 more otos. The otos are tiny and since adding the 2 more their personalities have completely changed! They are super active chasing each other around and hanging around each other all the time. I bought them to keep my plants clean but I'm really starting to like them for their personality. The cats love them the most, they are always pawing at the glass where they attatch.
I also got an anacharis and hornwort. I hope my fiance finishes drinking that soda so I can start the co2 injection...that 2L is the last piece I need to get it started up.
My rummy's weren't schooling when I first got them but they are now. Well 5 of them are. The 6th one I think was the one the guy dropped on the floor and I still think he made it into my tank. He is on his way out and I don't expect him to be alive when I get home tonight. He's been struggling the whole time I've had him and this morning his tail is partly gone and the back of his tail looks stiff. However, the 5 healthy ones had very little color at the store and their noses turned bright red in my tank! I think they like my pH of 6.8 and they are SUPER active.
I took a ton of pictures but without a flash they all came out blurry. I'll have to read some threads on taking good aquarium pics.
I think I will keep my 4 rams until I see a pair form. Then I will sell the other 2 to someone locally if I can find anyone. I hate to bring them back to the store, so I'll try to find another hobbyist. Of course theres always the chance not all will pull through as I've read happens often

so I'll be lucky if I get a pair out of the 4. I think they are still young... maybe to young to know for a while because they are far from being territorial with each other. Actually they enjoy hanging out all together.
This aquarium has completely replaced tv for the time being. I just sit and watch it for hours. The frogs are getting a little more relaxed and I'm seeing them a little more frequently as they come up for air. I'm concerned they are not eating. They are shy of my turkey baster but maybe I'm expecting to much to soon, I just don't want the cute little things to starve. Not sure how good pet stores do of keeping these little guys fed.
I'm a little surprised at how inactive my guppies are. They seem to be just hanging out at the top not doing a whole lot. My water conditions are perfect and they are the hardier of the group. Maybe they take a bit to warm up to a new tank? I remember them having more personality than this....
I also won a bid for 12 cherry shrimp. If I wasn't at capacity before I am now. Gotta tell myself...no more fishies. I love cardinals but I'm afraid that won't happen. Oh well. I can see how people get addicted to tanks!