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LMAO you guys realllly know how to help out a girl!!!! no, seriously, anyone got any good "avoiding techniques" they've ever used before?!!! i mean u guys must've avoided a few people here and there, right? well let me in on the secret! problem is, though...he'll be staying at my house...hmmm makes things a bit hard... 
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That was SOOOO wrong Mad... I loved it! LMAO
Neer- Why don't you tell your parents that you're not comfortable with him being there and why?
Neer- Why don't you tell your parents that you're not comfortable with him being there and why?
omg if i told my parents what he did, i think i would be attending his funeral the next day! the whole family would go after him...in a strict hindu family stuff like this is supposed to be non existent...i mean if my dad even caught me looking at a guy he would have a go at me...
imagine what would happen if i said "xxx grabbed me and kissed me..." i just need a way to avoid him, so that nothing else happens. don't know what he thinks he's doing coming over for a holiday so soon...couldn't he wait until next year?!!!! maybe i would've forgotten by then...any ideas, guys?
imagine what would happen if i said "xxx grabbed me and kissed me..." i just need a way to avoid him, so that nothing else happens. don't know what he thinks he's doing coming over for a holiday so soon...couldn't he wait until next year?!!!! maybe i would've forgotten by then...any ideas, guys?
Just tell him whats up. Be like ok....what you did was really inappropriate and weird. Do not ever do it again or try to do it again or you will deal with the wrath of my father. Or something to that effect.
welcome back by the way
welcome back by the way
Well, it wouldn't be hard to avoid him after the funeral.
Just tell him whats up. Be like ok....what you did was really inappropriate and weird. Do not ever do it again or try to do it again or you will deal with the wrath of my father. Or something to that effect.
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Yup. ^^^^ What he said.
well i will try and talk to him, but i'm worried about talking to him, because that night he kissed me he knew i was drunk, but he clearly too advantage of me, which i don't like at all, and he knows i can't tell the family if not we'll both be in trouble.
Yep, I have to agree with Sploke on this one. It may be hard, especially if you have a shyness to ya, or worry about hurting someones feeling. I know that can be tough sometimes to say something to someone when it is a touchy subject...but he was wrong, and if you do not say something to him or someone...it most likely will happen again no matter how hard you try to ignore him.
Sorry to anyone here that may take offense to this...but guys are guys, they are going to do whatever they think they can get a way with. If you say nothing, he will think you didn't mind and he will do it again...I'm not trying to scare you or anything, but guys can be very persistent and they are not good at reading "signs" such as just ignoring him. I know this for a fact, they can be very aggressive and hardheaded and sometimes even if you do tell him to stop...they wont. If you do tell him it was wrong, made you feel uncomfortable, and you do not want him to do it again, and then he still tries, knock him on his ***...and then, you HAVE to tell your family....even if it means the death of him because you do not want to have to deal with the emotional crap that could come from all this in the end...believe me ok, just tell him it is the only way really.
If you wanna continue this in PM, then send me one...I'll listen, and talk with you about it more
Sorry to anyone here that may take offense to this...but guys are guys, they are going to do whatever they think they can get a way with. If you say nothing, he will think you didn't mind and he will do it again...I'm not trying to scare you or anything, but guys can be very persistent and they are not good at reading "signs" such as just ignoring him. I know this for a fact, they can be very aggressive and hardheaded and sometimes even if you do tell him to stop...they wont. If you do tell him it was wrong, made you feel uncomfortable, and you do not want him to do it again, and then he still tries, knock him on his ***...and then, you HAVE to tell your family....even if it means the death of him because you do not want to have to deal with the emotional crap that could come from all this in the end...believe me ok, just tell him it is the only way really.
If you wanna continue this in PM, then send me one...I'll listen, and talk with you about it more
Honey.....you are in quite the situation I'm afraid with this one. You will have to overcome the "I can't tell my family" if he has that to hang over your head...I'm afraid he wont stop. Point blank tell him....if you do it again, I WILL tell my father.
