Hi , thnx for replies , yeah i know , before these to beauties , i hadtwo bettas ( i still have one of them now ) , she dosn t spit out anymore , i seperated them , but i put an stone with lotsa hidin places in the bowl and try them together to see if they can live together ! the male one starts to chase the female one again , BUT the female betta beat the other one anytime she can ! she took some of his crown tails OFF ! so i seperated them ! and i put her in my 55gls empty tank ! she so so so happy in there ! ( the tank will not remain empty ! lol )