Sad News

[judgemax]

Thanks guys. I found it appropriate to share this because of the many that prayed for her.

There are many fond memories, one of me and her that Father shared at the funeral.

I know it's hard to think of what to say. I didn't know how to respond to the condolences. What do you say when people ask, "how are you?" at the funeral home? Then again, I know they don't know what to say either. It's a rough thing to deal with on both sides.

Thanks.

Lila

my deepet sympathies and prayers to you. yes it is hard when people ask how you are its almost akward at times ...i have learned that the ones who still manage to talk and who understand that sometimes you dont wantto talk are the best to lean on ..other than that i usually just say i am dealing ..it ends the conversation and people feel better because they tried. again my condolances to you and your family.

 

[Lila]

So how are you feeling Lila?

I finally slept through a night lastnight. It's been rough getting to bed and sleeping. I still haven't had any alone time (you know, no screaming kids and so on?) to just deal with it. I want so badly to be alone for a little. So I was staying up late at night, which wasn't doing me any good.

But my husband took me and the two older kids out to Cedar Point over the past two days. I had a good time, but at quiet moments found myself thinking of her. We were twenty minutes from where she grew up.

Even though I slept through the night, I'm still exhausted. At least school will be starting in a couple weeks. *Smile* I'll have some quiet time then.

Thanks again, everyone.

Lila

 

[Corax]

I had no idea. I'm so sorry Lila. =(

 

[tbone]

I'm sorry to hear that too, thats terrible news. My condolences to you and the rest of your family.

 

[Matak]

Go for a long walk with someone you trust and can open up to.
Still praying for ya Lila

 

[125gJoe]

I feel for your loss...

Hope you got my PM awhile back - although a short note..