I was just reading the details under severum for mating. I have two gold severums. One is half the size of the other, which I thought the smaller one is a female & the larger one is male. According to the description listed the female has a spot located on it's dorsal fin (ours does not) but is laying eggs. This has happened now 5 times: the eggs are apparently not being fertilized by the male, because they keep turning white... Any advice??