so I was told by a lfs person that my star would not harm a gorgonian... and now my star (chocolate chip) is trying to suck on the gorgonian (yellow w. purple spots, not bloomed since I got it). I got the gorgonian on about 4 days ago, and it hasn't bloomed yet. I have some marine snow to feed it but haven't fed it yet... I was under the impression that the polyp-like things had to come out in order for it to digest the food... please help!!!! should i just take it back?