What ever sand or blasting you buy make sure it is screened, prewashed and kiln dried. Alot of play sands will say not suitable for aquarium use. This is because it has something in it (maybe an algeaside) to keep it from molding in the play box. I had read a while back on it and if I can find it I will post a link for you or just copy the text in.
Pool filter sand usually is the safest. The silica is nothing to worry about. If I remember correctly it is basically what the earth crust is made from (sand etc. so no matter what you use, play sand or pool sand or sand blasting sand it is Silica) The dust is what you don't want to inhale. So I don't think it will be a problem for fish.
I had a bigger issue with algae blooms though so not sure if that in combo with the water had anything to do with it.
Anyhow make sure you research whatever you use before doing it but really all of those options will have little to no impact on the fish. Unless it has a chem. in it then there is a problem.
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