SquirrelOsO
Work with me here, in one sentence you suggest it's O.K. to put a pleco that will reach 18+ inches in a small tank, and then follow it by saying you aren't suggesting putting an Oscar in a fish bowl. There is no difference.
Coomon pleco's get big, it doesn't matter if they get big next week or next decade they still get big and whoever owns them still has them to deal with.
Since it's pretty much understood that the pet stores are going to sell whatever people want to buy, then it's up to the individual to be responsible about the fish they keep. People come here and ask for advice because they want to be responsible informed hobbyists, if they didn''t care they wouldn't be here asking.
You also suggest that it's O.k. to keep heavily stocked tank since its already cruelty to keep fish in the first place.
If most of us believed it was cruel to keep fish in tanks we wouldn't do it. but it is cruel to house fish inadequately or provide them with poor conditions so we don't do that. I believe cruelty exists in the hobby, and everyone as to tolerate cruel moments because that is realty but I would suggest that if you truly believe it is cruel to keep fish in glass boxes, then you might want to find a different hobby. Cruelty is not a good hobby to have. But once again that is your choice, I just can't imagine being purposefully involved in something I thought was a cruel practice.
These are not and never were meant to be any type of personal attack. I for one have kept plenty of Oscars in 55g tanks with irredescent sharks and tiger shovelnose cats. But I did not know better at the time. When I learned how big these fish got I quit doing these things, and when others ask for suggestions on stocking I do not suggest things that I know won't work.
We are only asking that people not continue to defend or post bad advice after it has been pointed out as bad advice. There is a sticky explaining how poorly the inch per gallon rule actually applies, and how much trouble it may cause if you use it. there is additionally an article here that outlines a better (agreeably more complicated) method for determining stocking. under no circumstances would anyone with good experience reccomend more than and inch of fish per gallon. And with most fish the inch per gallon rule is so inadequate as to be laughable.
No one is trying to play God we are trying to keep people from making some of the same mistakes that we have made.
The last point is this. people have the right to do whatever they want at home, they can keep fish any way they want abusive or otherwise, they can overstock, they can underclean, they can be as responsible or irresponsible as they wish to be. When they come on these board and suggest practices that are irresponsible then they will be met with a lot of resistance. If they continue to defend their suggestion it will eventually be assumed that they aren't here to help others learn, and someone will probably label them a troll.
I hesitate to paste that label on anyone, and generally reserve my thoughts for me, If I think there is a problem I send a note to the mods and let them handle things. There have been plenty of people I don't like show up here and post things that made me cringe. In a lot of those cases those people proved to be very beneficial members of this community. There are people who I find to be quite irritating much of the time, but they are genuinly trying to help and they are beneficial. It's not about anyones opininion of someone else, it's about knowledge and understanding in the hobby, and the sharing of good information not bad information.
We want a lot of helpfull people here on the boards, the more knowledge and experience we all pool together the better the boards become. Your experience in fish keeping is quite valuable, and if you are willing to share that experience wonderful.
Dave