Cichlids from different areas of the world 'prefer' different pH levels.
Cichlids from Lake Malawi and Lake Tangangyika in Africa, aka rift lake cichlids, do prefer a pH range around 8. Smaller Cichlids from Central America, like the convict cichlid, would most likely thrive in your water conditions, as they seem to 'prefer' the pH to be 7-8. Generally, South American Cichlids like lower pH, between 6 and 7. The same goes for most West African Cichlids.
However, many tank bred and raised fish have been raised in conditions which can and do differ greatly from their natural habitat. Because of this, they can thrive in many different waters than what their wild counterparts might be able to. Danios are a very good example of this as they can survive and thrive in many different conditions than that in their natural enviroment. This makes them a very hardy fish.
More important is water temperature and water quality. For instance, if a fish were kept in water with the same gH, kH, and pH as its natural enviroment but the water was too cold or too warm and their were too many toxins (ammonia and nitrite) in the water, that fish would not likely live very long. But, that same fish in less than perfect pH, gH, kH levels, but with a good temperature and clean water, would more likely be the one to thrive.
As far as the rams; I have kept them before and they did very well in my water which has a pH of 7.8, gH of 9-10, and a kH of about 6. They are another specie which has come along way from their wild counterpart.