Good, will the jawfish bother the goby-shrimp sibiosis, or vice-versa.
I don't think so... The symbiots will probably be a threat to any shrimp or other crustaceans smaller than them, though. There might be goby/shrimp pairs that are dangerous to fish, but I can't think of any offhand. The jawfish probably won't bother anything that doesn't bother it.
I aslo need a few more fish for the mid/upperlevel so any suggestions would be greatly appricitated
Well... Except possibly for the Banggais, you have an fairly peaceful tank here from a fish's point of view. I like chromis, because they school in the upper levels of the tank, but chromis and many aggressive fish don't mix. Banggais probaly aren't aggressive enough to cause problems for them, though. 100 gallons is also large enough for the smallest tangs, which are beautiful fish and peaceful. There are a variety of reef-safe wrasses that are very striking that you could add, too. One royal gramma might do well in the mix. If you don't get a lot of overly active and social fish, one firefish dartfish/goby will swim in the mid layers and dart about.
If you decide for a more aggressive tank, you are fine there, too, as all of your fish picks can handle semi-aggressive. This includes your clownfish, dwarf angels, possibly one smaller large angel, basslets (aside from the royal gramma), one of the easier anthias, etc.
There are myriad options. I'd encourage you to research, find an array of fish you like, and then ask whether they will work in your tank. I'd just caustion that a lot of the fun less aggressive fish hide all the time if faced with more aggressive fish.
Are pajama cardnalfish, or the striped ones (can't think of name) similar in care, difficulty to keep, breed, and compatipility as the banggai.
I'm no expert on cardinals, but I think they're all pretty darn easy to keep. Most can be kept in medium-sized groups. (Maybe not the Banggai, as it is the most aggressive of the ones I know about.) They pretty much all stand a decent chance of breeding in captivity. The less aggressive cardinals love a peaceful tank, which just limits you to cutting out all of the species with any tendency towards aggression (which might include the Banggai).
Also what is a FOWLR tank?
Fish Only With Live Rock. It means a natural tank, but no live corals or anemones. It's the safest tank to start with if you want few things to die. All but a few corals require significantly more care than most fish and mobile invertebrates. The live rock is good, because it insulates your tank against some problems that can crop up with mechanical filtration systems.
what kind of light would I need for hard corals, and tracia clams
Those require a lot of light... Here is a site that gives suggestions based upon the dimensions of your tank. Look in the far right column to determine a good light strength for the tank whose dimensions most closely match yours.
http://www.marineandreef.com/Info/lightingchart_hood.html