The males I have are extremely large, and probably approaching full grown, but the females are staying pretty small. I have noticed when they have eggs they will stay in their cave during feeding time regardless of if they are hungry. So, I try to throw a pellet in the cave with them. I'm planning to trade them in at some point or perhaps give them to a friend, I want some more unusual cichlids. I just wanted to make sure they weren't stunted somehow. Thanks for all the info!