I have a 125G tank that currently contains only an 8" black arowana. I have read that stingrays make excellent tankmates for arowanas because of the stratification of the tank. I currently have black sandblasting sand as a substrate, but I have been told that this will be too rough for a stingray. I was wondering if anyone used something that was cheaply available as a substrate. Is play sand an option, or is it also too rough. The sand that was recommended at the LFS is $1/lb, which is slightly above my graduate student budget. Thanks for any info...