Ha! "My" personal makeup for Rift Lake water is a tap water plus aragonite substrate. My tap is GH 9, KH 7, pH 7.8. I don't need to do anything but ensure stability via the subtrate chosen and use that over OE-RFUG to keep it all stable. I do age change water w/circlation through aragonite or coral rubble in a canister for such fish. Stable as a rock for me with mbuna. The only grassbed/sandbed Rift fish I ran were the same water, same substrate, Val rather than rockwork. That was a bit less stable until I pushed the water change levels up to what I used for mbuna and keep the Val trimmed to less excessive mass - the Val tended to overgrow and could push the pH up if not controlled (biogenic decalcification), which is not desirable at all, downright dangerous (comparable to ODing pH-Up).
I recently quoted Dr. Paul Loiselle's supplements for Rift water make-up in a thread. But I never needed to use it myself. Moderately hard water I am blessed/cursed with by location (Catoctin Mts. in MD) for the last nearly 30 years. Hard water fish love me. Soft water fish may not, so I don't bred them.
No water softeners in my life, plain ordinary tap. No RO either, but I have done in the past. I've outgrown water mods other than for reef/delicate SW (which I have also given up), meaning that I am too old and cranky to deal with it all. The older I get,the less I do to "custom" water. And I have to admit that now if I wanted to start with RO, I'd go commercial out of pure laziness.
Jim Schmidt's mix sounds like a good place to start, given your super-soft (by hobby kits) and treated water, but I suspect that you will need somthing such as RO-Right or the Seachem salt mixes to get a full mineral balance. I'd also get a TDS meter to use as a baseline and comparison to the finished products. Processed water which registers super-soft by GH and KH may not be in reality soft by TDS. That makes a big difference for the blackwater fish, not so much for the Rift fish, where given some significant TDS, and stabilty, and the presence of a few particular ions (the potassium and magnesium Dr. Loiselle pushes) which are critical. Hobby-useful TDS meters start below $50 bucks.