Alright I may have exadurated a little. She does not what me to get tank. She does what me to get rid of fish. But wev'e been together 26 yrs ;so she mite for give me., (I hope)
I agree, it doesn't seem very fair (to me) for you to give up a hobby unless she is giving something up as well...I understand not wanting to get another tank but it sounds like she wants you to get rid of your current fish? I suppose that's your business, however, not mine. Good luck
I'm not "allowed" to get any more tanks unless I get rid of some. So I keep trading up in size. What was a 75 is now a 90 and what was a 10 and a 20 is now the 75
I'm actually finding fewer, larger tanks to be a lot less work too.