I will jump on this bandwagon as well. Refractometers are the only way to go as far as I am concerned. I purchased mine from Marine Depot for $45. As far as calibration goes, I calibrate mine using RO/DI water at the 0 point. I have heard of other people using calibration solutions or sea water standards. Quite frankly, the error from calibrating at the 0 point vs. the 1.026 point will mean an error smaller than what you can read on the meters (example +/-0.0005) at the other end of the spectrum. As Pufferpunk stated, its really more of an issue on reef tanks (almost an exact science) and much less of an issue with brackish tanks.
I am maintaining my brackish tank at 1.005 so I will continue to calibrate the 0 point with RO/DI water.
Chris