use of "them" in place of "him/her"

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stratusfearrr

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In ap english three a few weeks ago, i found out that it is grammatically correct for a writer to use the term "Them" in place of him/her.

Seeing as how "Him/her" always makes a paper awkward, i thought this was pretty neat!

And in this case, "them" refers to only one person:the him or the her.
 

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how does the use of "him/her" make a paper awkward...?
 

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Good, I am starting the new year learning something new :mwave:
 

stratusfearrr

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The decision of the status quo was left to his/her hands

OR

The decision of the status quo was left in thier hands.


IT is apparent which one sounds better, and flows easier.
 

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I think "them" would look more akward then "him/her" but it's good to learn something new. Thanks!
 

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Ah "their'' makes more sense
 

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I despise the use of "them" when referring to a single unspecified person or other gendered creature. When I was working as a book editor, and later in my own writing, I made sure that "them" was only used for more than one entity. There is no reason a person can't maintain his or her grammar skills as the old Chicago Manual of Style would have one do so.
 

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way over thinking and a useless thought....no wonder "AP" is useless for a paycheck...
 

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Hmm I was taught the same thing in ap like use oneself or man(as in a neuter form like in german and other languagues.)
 
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