so got it running again STILLLLLLLLLLLLLLL
have one more leak to fix, bloodyhell i thought i had them all fixed.
so it is currently drained.
anyway, i have redone the plumbing and had the pump running full power this time. the increased flowed raises the water level on its own, about 1/2" higher than it was when pump was running throttled back. i wasn't expecting that. for now it plan to leave it be i think.