Ethical Dilemma with Pet...

[kuhliloach]

Do you have any pictures of the cat?

 

[jpappy789]

I think the point that the child comes first has been made, now it's what to do with her is the dilemma like Draal said.

Rehoming is probably not a good option. It will only make her freak out even more.

Declawing I am not familiar with.

And putting her to sleep...it's hard but may be your best available option

I would check with your vet to find out if there are health issues with your cat. It may end up that putting her down is the best thing to do...

 

[kuhliloach]

I think the point that the child comes first has been made, now it's what to do with her is the dilemma like Draal said.

Rehoming is probably not a good option. It will only make her freak out even more.

Declawing I am not familiar with.

And putting her to sleep...it's hard but may be your best available option

I would check with your vet to find out if there are health issues with your cat. It may end up that putting her down is the best thing to do...

child comes first?
If you had the cat longer than the kid, of course you're gonna be more familiar with it. But just because it's HUMAN means it has every more right to be around than the cat? Do you consider the cat's point of view or feelings?


I wish I could have your cat.

 

[Gracecat]

Sorry, as much as I dearly love cats I have to agree the little girl comes first.

I still disagree rehoming is not an option. I think if you talk to your vet and the local rescue group they can direct you towards an ideal situation. But that's my opinion.

I do agree the cat is as important as the child but not to the point where you sacrifice the child's safety.

 

[Rbishop]

child comes first!?

what the heck, If you had the cat longer than the kid, of course you're gonna be more familiar with it. But just because it's HUMAN means it has every more right to be around than the cat? Do you consider the cat's point of view or feelings?


I wish I could have your cat.

Yes.

But let us keep things on topic for the OP and offer our suggestions...not argue the point.

 

[jpappy789]

child comes first!?

what the heck, If you had the cat longer than the kid, you're gonna be more familiar with it. But just because it's HUMAN means it has every more right to be around than the cat? Do you consider the cat's point of view or feelings?


I wish I could have your cat.

1) I dont have a cat

2) When a childs safety is in danger you pick the child over any animal, hands down. Age had absolutely NOTHING to do with it. Lots of people have had to give up pets or put them down because they pose a threat to their children's well-being, it happens often. Obviously you have never been a parent (well, neither have I) but I assure you that LOADS of parents on AC would put their child first.

3) The cats feelings are being considered. Obviously Ogre is putting some thought into this and I am not suggesting for him to just throw it out on the streets. Its not an easy choice, but I think he has his priorities set straight. It seems like this cat has been getting progressively worse and my guess is that there may be some physical problems going on as I wouldnt think a cat would get this psychologically sick out of the blue. Putting it down seems like the best option to me but consulting a vet would help get a better grasp of things before making a final decision...

 

[kuhliloach]

1) I dont have a cat

2) When a childs safety is in danger you pick the child over any animal, hands down. Age had absolutely NOTHING to do with it. Lots of people have had to give up pets or put them down because they pose a threat to their children's well-being, it happens often. Obviously you have never been a parent (well, neither have I) but I assure you that LOADS of parents on AC would put their child first.

3) The cats feelings are being considered. Obviously Ogre is putting some thought into this and I am not suggesting for him to just throw it out on the streets. Its not an easy choice, but I think he has his priorities set straight. It seems like this cat has been getting progressively worse and my guess is that there may be some physical problems going on as I wouldnt think a cat would get this psychologically sick out of the blue. Putting it down seems like the best option to me but consulting a vet would help get a better grasp of things before making a final decision...

Can the cat get a check-up or would that be too much money?

 

[Lupin]

Enough with the arguments, please.

 

[OgreMkV]

This is an older picture of Tango. She's about 2 years in this picture. She's about 10 now.



Thank you for all of your comments. I have read and discussed all of them with my wife.

I agree that perhaps, just a straight vet visit would be the best place to start. The vet is relatively familiar with her (having pulled her teeth) and may be able to suggest a kitty Thorazine or something.

Please understand, It's not about money or not considering Tango's feelings. The other cats have getting along with Xander pretty well and he's learning to be very gentle with them. He does get excited sometimes and all the cats would prefer to run than mess with him.

I am a cat lover and always have been. I'm the kid that was always bringing strays home. Now that I own my home, I've had all the stray's in my neighborhood fixed. I want what's best for Tango, but my son must come first.

Thank you all.

Please don't argue on my account. Thank you all for presenting your position and your pros and cons for each. The decisions lie solely with me and my family. I'll let you know what has been decided... when we decide.

 

[Gracecat]

She's a cutie Ogre. I apologize if anything in my posts may have sounded like you weren't considering Tango's best interests. Not sure where I got the idea it was a little girl and not a little boy though....

I hope it works out quite well for you. Ultimately with your vet, it'll be a good choice whatever you decide.