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My best friend has a son, a 6 year old diagnosed with Asperger's (a milder form of autism). He's extremely handsome already and very smart (already doing basic math, writing sentences, etc) but socially he has a hard time...when he's comfortable, he'll talk your ear off, but it's always about a fantasy world. We're not talking normal kid imagination...he's convinced these things are happening and gets very upset with any sort of change to his routine or when his imaginary world is contradicted, and he tends to be high-strung (one time, I showed him how to blow a dried dandilion head to make the seeds float, and that turned into an hour long cry over how he broke it and an even longer explanation of how we were really helping more grow...). Although, I know undiagnosed people that are like this, so maybe the doctors are wrong, and I've never understood how they can diagnose someone as young as two. Overall, Oliver's a joy to be around...it's just a matter of directing the conversation away from his obsessions before getting stuck in a 4 hour long conversation about his pet car and how the Transformer's movie really happened to him and they all live in his bedroom (he saw the movie once when it first came out and can quote it line by line). It takes all kinds in this world, and I know Jodie's life would be a lot less interesting and she'd be lost without him.
 
Ky I am so sorry things are so up and down for you.I understand what you mean tho that you just need some answers.Then at least you would know what direction to go for the help you need.Hopefully they are going in the wrong direction with this and he is just a little reserved around other people.Sometimes it really gets me that they want to place a label on someone so fast.Again my thoughts are with you.
 
My biggest fear out of all of the things that I have heard is that my sweet little loving boy will change into a loner. I know that it might not happen but the possibility of it is driving me nuts.
I truly hope the doctors are wrong on this.
I snapped this today with my phone it's a little blurry but isn't he precious!

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Well he certainly doesn't look withdrawn in the picture and he obviously likes interacting with whoever is holding the camera, so maybe he just didn't like the therapist. Kids often choose who they want to react with it. I'm sure whatever way this goes he will continue to be a source of joy in your life.
 
............................................ i just came back from like month long vacation and all i saw was the first post on this page.......thought it was worth reading and......im sooo sorry to hear this all. i hope evrything turns out for the better
 
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