Okay...love the input and thoughts. Thanks!
I admit I have been guilty of flushing fish that were sick a long tiime ago, but never fish that I did not want. It is not my standard practice though, and has not been for many years.
Often, for me, I will put effort into a tank wide illness, vice a singular fish. Just a fact of life. Fish that then get disposed of are put down by some combination of freezing/clove oil/sharp knife.
Though some may not want to hear (read) it, while I consider my fish as pets in general, I do not equate the same traits to them as a dog/cat/bird. I do have my favorites and care well for them.
Once again..thanks for all the responses, and I hope everyone received some thoughtful input from other members on opposing views! :hi:
mg: Did this actually happen to you?! Such a realistic story if not...
Have you ever read Jessica Mitford? You definitely should!
I agree with you about funeral services (for people) but it's the kind of thing I never bring up since it is offensive to so many. I hope so called "eco funerals" catch on in the U.S., but I think it will be a long time before this country warms up to cardboard coffins.
We have an almost healthy relationship with natural decomposition - look at all the people saying they compost their fish - except when it comes to us. For some reason, worms and microbes returning our bodies to the earth really rubs us the wrong way.
I put my finger or my hand in the tank and mine rush up to my arm. Hell they try to chase flake debris up the grav vac tube.