LOL, so your not savvy with power tools, not savvy with computers... what are you savvy with other than turning an Apple into something other than an edible fruit?im not very computer savvy lol... i tried restarting my computer about a thousand times and plugging the USB cord into several different ports.. going into settings and stuff.. cant figure out how to make it sync

Uninstall the drivers for your phone and reinstall them.. I dunno, shot in the dark with that one.