AGH! Bubble nest! HELP

Those are kinda bad pics as they are too far away to distinguish easy enough. You need to be able to see all fins clearly to be able to tell.
 
actually, with true honeys, its really obvious. the female has a brown stripe and is pale. The male is vibrant and doesn't have a brown stripe...I can post pics that are closer.
 
Ya most gourami males are very vibrant while the females are bland in color but there is always that exception and it would make it easier for her to id them with closer pics.
 
In most gouramis you can tell by the dorsal fin. So thats what I would want to see. Why is your tank bare bottom?
 
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