I have a 5-6 inch female comet that thrashes around a lot and gets panicked easily if startled by other fish. I noticed a few weeks ago what I thought might be parasites on her tail on the top part near the middle, then I noticed last night it was much worse and oddly enough the tail was flapping at 90 degree angles as she swam and she seemed in a lot of pain. Looking more closely after netting her, the things I noticed before were from the bone in the fin poking out through the tail. I didn't even know they had bones in the actual tail but looking online this does seem to be the case. I found a site that seemed like a serious place and they suggested for a broken fin bone to cut off the fin past the broken bone. Now this thing is flapping around like crazy, she is probably the most active fish I've ever seen so it's doubtful it will just get better on its own. However it's a lot of fin to lose. If I angle it along the grain of the fins it will lose 1/4 of the surface area of the fin. That seems like a lot but then I've seen some of my other fish get basically every single fin shredded off and come back from it, but that was african cichlids not a goldfish like her with these huge fins. So, if I cut this off will it grow back? If I don't cut it off will it ever grow out properly again or will that broken bone flap always be causing problems? With her activity level it's going to be constantly torn open if I do nothing. Also, the site suggested that they would not feel it, but since she is a big fish and this is a more serious case is there any sort of pain relief available?