you can try to raise them yourself but be sure to use a fungus preventative, a lot of folks use methylene blue along with a bubble wand for water movement. The adults do this by waving their fins over the eggs.
born, give them some time... eventually they may raise hem as they age, but sometimes, they won't ever...
Star, the eggs that turn white are infertile, it's possible you have 2 females which is not unheard of in a pair.