Theres a bunch of guys from your area that are in the RFSG. Check out the aquarium societies in your area. I was a member of the Erie Aquarium Society for awhile and met some of these people at various functions. I liked to feed my bows black worms and globs of micro worms to prime them. I also fed flake, cocktail shrimp, bloodworms, and daphniaThen when I could see the females plumping up I'd do a massive water change of 70%. I was able to watch my M. Melotenaeia spawn a few times. Good luck and let us know how you make out